Three Stories to Get You in the Mood for Valentine's Day
In this two-minute read, we share three stories that shine a light on affairs of the heart in the lead up to Valentine’s Day on Sunday.
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Lockdown celebrations
One thing star-crossed lovers in Bognor Regis don’t have to worry about this Valentine’s Day is bagging a reservation at a candle-lit restaurant.Â
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In “normal times”, even the most mediocre eatery is booked solid on 14 February, but – alas – thanks to lockdown that won’t be the case this year.Â
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So how can couples celebrate the Feast of St Valentine in style? Diana Wiley, a “marriage therapist and board-certified sex therapist” urges those in relationships to be creative.Â
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She told NBC that couples should focus on creating their own “bubble of love”. Ways to do this include dressing smartly (no onesies or tracksuit bottoms), buying your beloved a thoughtful gift and don’t obsess over the fact that you can’t go out.
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Make 2021 the year you create a new Valentine’s tradition that doesn’t involve overpriced set menus.
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The survey says…
Frugal types will be delighted to learn that you don’t have to spend big on your partner this Sunday.
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That’s according to relationship coach Louanne Ward, who surveyed couples about their Valentine’s Day likes and dislikes.
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Ward, an Australian who runs a matchmaking agency, says 63% of men and women surveyed think heartfelt gestures are more important than expensive gifts.Â
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So, if you were planning to present your other half with a pricey piece of jewellery or an expensive bottle of booze, think again; a home-cooked meal and a card might suffice.
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And if you’re going to show your love with flowers, they don’t have to be red roses (which are usually eye-wateringly expensive on 14 February). The survey found that 80% of women would prefer to receive their favourite flower instead of red roses. The question is: do you know your beloved’s favourite bloom?
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Is monogamy for the birds?
When it comes to everlasting love, birds are much more likely than mammals to stick with the same partner for life. Only about 5% of mammal species (excluding humans) are monogamous, compared to 90% of bird species (figures: World Wildlife Foundation).Â
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You won’t be surprised to learn that lovebirds mate for life. Other loyal species include bald eagles, barn owls, pigeons, vultures, scarlet macaws, flamingos, and mute swans.
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(Side note: If a male mute swan dies, his female mate will find a new partner within weeks. However, if a female mute swan dies, the male waits until the following autumn or winter before buddying up with another swan.)
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From all of us here at Whitlocks, thanks for reading and have a great weekend.
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